Parenting Tip: See the Good, Say the Good – Building Confident Kids
Hey mama 💛
You know those little moments when your child does something kind, helpful, or just plain sweet? The ones that are easy to miss when we’re juggling dishes, work, laundry, and all the things?
Here’s a simple tip that can make a big difference in your child’s confidence: see the good, and say the good. ✨
💬 What Does That Mean?
It’s all about catching your child doing something right—and naming it out loud. Not just a quick “good job,” but really recognizing their positive actions and character.
Try things like:
- “I saw how gently you helped your little brother—that was really kind of you.”
- “You kept trying with that puzzle, even when it got hard. That shows determination!”
- “Thanks for cleaning up without being asked. You’re showing responsibility!”
When we call out the good stuff, our kids feel seen. And when they feel seen for the right things, they’re more likely to repeat them.
🌱 Why It Builds Confidence
Our words help shape how kids see themselves. When they hear positive affirmations tied to their actions, they start to think:
- “I’m kind.”
- “I’m capable.”
- “I’m a good helper.”
- “I can do hard things.”
It’s like watering a plant. A little encouragement every day helps their inner confidence grow strong and steady.
☀️ Keep It Simple
Don’t stress about doing it perfectly! You don’t have to give a full speech every time your child does something good. Even a quick, sincere phrase like:
- “That was thoughtful of you.”
- “I noticed you tried your best.”
- “You showed great teamwork!”
…can go a long way.
🎁 Freebie for You: Encouragement Notes for Kids
To make this even easier (and sweeter), I created a FREE printable set of Encouragement Notes you can use anytime! 💌
They’re colorful, cute, and filled with short affirmations like:
✔ “You made someone smile today.”
✔ “You handled that like a champ.”
✔ “Your kindness is powerful.”
✔ “You are growing into someone amazing.”
📎 Pop one in a lunchbox, tape it to a bedroom mirror, or sneak one under their pillow.
👉 Click here to download your free Encouragement Notes
💖 Final Thoughts
You’re already doing an incredible job, mama. This little shift—choosing to notice and speak the good—can help your child feel more confident, valued, and ready to shine in their own unique way.
Keep watering that goodness. It’s growing, even if you can’t see it yet 🌼
